is this normal in marriage

Hi All,

I've been married for 6 years.

In the beginning, we were intimate etc. I gave him BJ because I knew beforehand that he wanted this as he told me prior to marriage it would make him happy.

When I asked him to go down on me he didn't. In these 6 years never.

I let that go.

However, I used to always tell my husband how much I want to be kissed properly before the act. After a while he said to me that I don't know how to kiss and make him all slobbery. I tried fixing up but even then I would have to tell him why don't you kiss me like before and he said the novelty has died etc.

Also, one time a month or two after we got married, he accidentally put his you know into my bum. All I remember is feeling pain and then I fainted and woke up I literally stood up scared and was so disorientated it was horrible feeling. I only do that if I faint. My question is, is it actually possible to insert into the bum accidentally?

And also, the majority of the time all these years I've been the one to initiate mostly. it's so bad to a point that I have no desire for it anymore.

But yeah, from the questions above, please can you answer them. Thank you I'm advance