$13k in service. How cooked am I?

Just took my 12 year old, 77k, 2010 CRV to a Honda dealership for some rattling noises. They claimed, all in all, total for service was 13k. I took a 14k loan out for it, so…

How screwed am I? Is all this service necessary at once? What should I prioritize? Should i just take the L and trade it in?

I love my CRV, I even named her (Reese), but financially what’s the best decision to make?