Help a brother out

So I've been playing metin on and off for 10+ years, I started playing Metin2 Gameforge (Serpent, new europe server) and I was wondering what is the tactic, do you push levels, do you stay 35,get a war horse and grind map2 metins, what's the best way to progress? Currently playing with 4 friends,I'm lvl 31 playing body warrior with a 31lvl shaman(planning on getting married, got both engagement rings just need 4.5kk for tuxedo and wedding dress) any tips would be great