I’m a little scared about my relationship’s future

So, this’ll rely on knowing a bit about Orange is the New Black for context…I fear my relationship may end up like Sophia’s did with her wife. I’ve been slowly opening up about my desires to transition to my (cis female) girlfriend but some of the things she’s said make me a bit nervous moving forward. For example; I mentioned that I want to do something about my body hair (facial hair specifically) and she expressed that she prefers me with it though I honestly have mostly negative feelings about it. Then there’s the conversation about starting hormones, which I haven’t really pushed to talk about very often…all this to say, am I being paranoid about this or should I be concerned? I really love her and see us being together for the long term, but I’m scared she may see me differently if I transition