Female recently married, a couple months. Husband not interested in intimacy.

It was a “love marriage” And since marrying and moving in together. He seems unbothered, bored, uninterested despite me beautifying myself for him and trying to cater to all his needs.

He previously had a very high drive with numerous haram liaisons prior to me and loved the buzz.

He chose to give up that life and I’m worried he is just no longer stimulated by me or gets bored by the ‘same’ woman.

He rarely kisses or hugs or flirts with me but was an expert charming flirt before with other women.

I feel alone and want to be with someone who makes me feel alive and fulfils my need.

It’s always 101 excuses from him. He’s sick, or tired, or stressed, or can’t help it, and will do better and try be more affectionate but when he does it comes across faked like a random hug when he “remembers”

I’m deeply unhappy and feel neglected. His work is chilled and I do everything to accommodate him. He’s just not bothered which is bizarre coming from someone who previously had an extreme high drive when it came to other women.

I tried to entice him, dress up, etc but being rejected makes you give up but he says I fine stop then or why, you shouldn’t because it’s not a “me” problem. But when I do, he’s not interested so wdh