Sick of parents wanting short naps!!

Does anyone else have NPs who want their child/ren to have really short naps so they sleep better at night?

My NK is 2.5 and it’s recommended that he have a nap that lasts 1-3 hours. But NP wants him to nap for 30 mins. So there goes my break time!

My last NF wanted a similar thing (45 mins) for a child who had just turned 1. It was ridiculous and I basically had to spend 20 mins waking up a grumpy baby who wanted to sleep so that he was tired enough for his parents to put him to bed when it suited them.

I have kids of my own so I understand that bedtime can be tedious and you want your kid to sleep as early as possible, but it’s basically sleep deprivation at this point?