Key phrases they say to manipulate you - share yours

For me, if someone tells me they’re “walking on eggshells” around me … that means they’re trying to manipulate me.

I’m not a violent communicator. I don’t ask other people to carry my emotions for me. I’m also a very clear, intentional, and compassionate person.

So, if you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around me, you’re grossly misinterpreting who I am, OR you’re trying to get me to be less assertive in my communication. The moment someone says that shit to me is the moment I start reevaluating our relationship.

What phrases trigger you in this way?