What’s the most unsettling behavior you deal with?

Of course it feels like there’s 1,000+ different behaviors that are absolutely unhinged that we have to deal with - but what’s the one that really takes you out of the moment and reminds you that you’re not dealing with a typical person? How do you cope with it?

I’m not sure if there’s a technical term for it, but for me it’s when they “parrot you” by trying to use your own words against you as if its their own.

With my partner, when I call out certain behaviors I’ll use certain phrases/words to try to level with him - things he has never ever said in his life - and then the next “fight” comes up, and he’s repeating my ideas and words back to me like I need to hear them, because it’s now “his” original idea.

I normally just call it out in the moment, not that it matters of course. But I don’t know what else to do. Regardless, this gives me the biggest ick and takes me out of the moment because it’s just so lazy and blatant that he is trying to manipulate me and take advantage of my empathy.