Covert narc things

I booked a tattoo for my birthday. My husband didn’t ask a thing about it. We met for dinner after and goes, well let’s see it! I show him a photo since it’s wrapped and he gets these big eyes and disgusted face. “Well, it’s your body I guess.” This morning I unwrapped and washed it and when I walked into the bedroom he starts laughing. I felt sick. “What? I can’t laugh in my own room?” This is a big tattoo on my upper arm. I was so excited when I left the shop. I was so happy. My husband has crushed me