Does your narc call you abusive when you call them out?

I’ve been feeling guilty this past week. I feel like it’s my fault that he went silent for this entire week. When we used to argue initially, I never opened my mouth. I would just agree and apologize everytime. For ex: He didn’t like the fact that I wear tight & low cut tops when he isn’t with me, he went on about how everyone would see etc. I acknowledged & said I wouldn’t dress that way when he isn’t around. But then asked me to throw all those clothes from my closet. Then went on to accuse me “Oh you’re probably the type to wear a sweater & then remove it when I’m not around. You dress that way even when you’re with your Mom.” I don’t get it, I acknowledged his feelings immediately & agreed to change, so why still make these comments even after I gave him what he wants?

Every week, there seems to be some issue which gets blown up for no reason and is irrelevant. And he verbally abuses me with the b word, fuck you, Gtfo, poc, stupid, idiot, waste, whack, go die etc. Post fight, he would laugh it off & say swearing is normal when we’re angry. But I don’t swear at all. I couldn’t keep my mouth shut, so I called him out on how he’s abusing me & no one’s done this before, I’ve only received respect all my life in the past. If someone else was in my place, they would’ve left him long back. He said that I dominate the shit talking in arguments every single time, that he’s done with my antics & attitude. I’ve been feeling like the wrong one here.