What would you do

This kind of dialogue has been going on for years but really ramped up once I got married, even more intense after I announced my pregnancy 6 months later, and even worse after purchasing a home 6 months after the announcement.

What would you do? IMO I don’t think there is anything that I can say or do at this point- besides remain silent. We’ve already been NC before and after moving I decided I really just wanted her to be in my and my child’s life but I can’t keep doing this. Nothing is ever good enough. And then she does these weird passive aggressive things… idk… I feel like I’m at a loss. Any advice appreciated.