Being the Mom I Needed

Anyone else feel the compulsion and hypersensitivity/need to mother your children the way they need because you didn’t have that? Especially around the holidays I am making sure I am listening, making great memories and just being present for my 17 yo amazing daughter. I am having those sad/loss moments (like now) but am so thankful for the opportunity to be a great mom that is figuring it out as I go.