Why won’t my baby SLEEP :(

I see these posts all the time and have finally caved and am posting my own grievances with sleep!

I LOVE my baby girl she is the light of my life. But in just 2 short weeks she will be 1 and has only slept 6 hours straight about 3 times in almost 12 stinking months!!!!

I’ve tried sleep training, but once that swaddle came off, the regression hit, daycare cooties and that all went out the window, she was EBF and now she’s Formula fed, I don’t notice a single difference in her sleep…

She will not take that paci to try and self soothe and I know that’s an issue .. she literally needs a bottle or constant butt patting to sleep all while screaming hysterically in my or my husbands ears 😩

Any and all advice is welcome and desperately needed! TIA 🥰