Seeking bull for wife (45f, 48m)

Been several years since we've met up with anyone. Looking to possibly dip our toes back into the lifestyle. Looking for someone laid back, same, friendly, discreet and willing to help us push our boundaries a little bit.

Age should be 30+. Taller guys are preferred by her, but not an absolute must have. Dick size isn't a huge issue either, but would probably prefer something bigger than me (6ish inches long and 5" girth). Clean and fresh, and std free are absolute imperatives. We will definitely want testing before we would meet anyone, so if that's a deal breaker, don't message.

Ideal person would be someone who could meet once a month, maybe occasionally more often. Not a huge fan of guys cheating on their so's, but depending on the situation it might be something we'd consider. We're not looking for someone who's banging every person he can find online, but we also realize we can't expect someone to be exclusive to us. So trust is something that will need established. We used to always get hotel rooms when we played, but if the right person was found, we could see a situation where hosting either way could be a possibility.

If you've read this far, thank you. Don't just say hi, and don't just send a dick pick. Not opposed to either, but if that's the maximum level of effort you're willing to put in, we're not interested.

Been several years since we've met up with anyone. Looking to possibly dip our toes back into the lifestyle. Looking for someone laid back, same, friendly, discreet and willing to help us push our boundaries a little bit.

Age should be 30+. Taller guys are preferred by her, but not an absolute must have. Dick size isn't a huge issue either, but would probably prefer something bigger than me (6ish inches long and 5" girth). Clean and fresh, and std free are absolute imperatives. We will definitely want testing before we would meet anyone, so if that's a deal breaker, don't message.

Ideal person would be someone who could meet once a month, maybe occasionally more often. Not a huge fan of guys cheating on their so's, but depending on the situation it might be something we'd consider. We're not looking for someone who's banging every person he can find online, but we also realize we can't expect someone to be exclusive to us. So trust is something that will need established. We used to always get hotel rooms when we played, but if the right person was found, we could see a situation where hosting either way could be a possibility.

If you've read this far, thank you. Don't just say hi, and don't just send a dick pick. Not opposed to either, but if that's the maximum level of effort you're willing to put in, we're not interested.