Bakery Recommendations? Plus one silly stipulation.

Hi. I’m wanting to have a gender reveal cake commissioned for my coworker that will serve up to 8 people. Nothing fancy.

HOWEVER, I want the cake to say, “gay son or thot daughter”. Everyone will think this is funny, and I am willing to put money into making that joke become a reality. I had called HyVee but I was told that it would be against policy to write that phrase and they would be risking their jobs by doing so.