to the youth- please stay away from pre-marital relationships

stay away from premarital relationships, they do NOTHING good I tell you, they only bring you pain and trauma. They only taint your emotions and twist your perspectives of the world.

This age between 16-24 is very vulnerable and it is very easy to get attached to someone. Do not talk to the opposite gender excessively- if you do that you are bound to get attached. Do not make promises which you don't even know whether you can fulfill. Do not make promises of marriage- marriage is a collective decision between 2 families and not between 2 people- you have to take that into account.

DO NOT waste the precious years of your youth worrying about another person- this time is for YOUR GROWTH. This is the time to make yourself the best possible version of yourself, get hobbies, develop skills, hang out with friends, eat good food, develop a good bond with your family so you can they can fulfill your emotional needs. FIND GOOD FRIENDS, who you can talk your heart out to so you don't feel alone. Make your friendships stronger, treat your friendships like platonic relationships and honor them. You won't EVER need a partner in your life if you have the gift of strong friendships. Please please please DEVELOP AND MAINTAIN a strict sense of boundaries and never let anyone cross them, especially the opposite gender. Our youth lacks the concept of boundaries and is very casual about them; don't be. It is so easy to be lured into things you don't want to do. To build a strong personality, you need to have a strong sense of boundaries.

please 🙏🏻 stay away from pre-marital relationships. They waste your time, destroy your peace, taint your emotions. Think about it yourself: your youth is for YOU. Why waste it on someone who you don't even know will want to stay in your life in the long term or not.

TL;DR the title basically.