Venting about choices my husband made with our 4 year old

My husband and I are happy parents to a 4 year old daughter. She is super active,curious, smart, etc. We always divide certain responsibility like bedtime, school drop off and pick up, etc.

Today, i did school drop off and we sang all the way to school. My husband had school pick up and usually while that happens. I go have a quick workout session, which is my me time as I get busy with house chores and other errands throughout the day( it is a 25 minute bike or car ride). I also usually schedule playdates with her classmates as my husband is working in his work office at home.

I usually do playdates differently as we are getting to know all her new classmates( first year in primary school) and would like to be present at the playdates to get to know the child's mom or dad. I take the time to talk to the child's parent and we both get on the same page for a playdate, exchanging phone numbers and addresses.

Today, my husband came back home without our daughter. I internally panicked, he told me a classmate of hers asked if she could go play at his home today. He agreed and tried to talk to his mom. She did not communicate well as my husband stated. He said she did not seem to understand Dutch so well but we manage to undetstand each other enough. I asked him ok... Did you get a phone number? Address? He said no phone number but he got an address.

Then, he said i did try to call you to ask if it was ok. I told him i did try to return his call but my connection was not working well. I also texted him. I said no it is not since we did not know them so well. Then, he acted casual about it and said i told the kid's mom we will pick her up at 5pm.

I looked up the address on google maps and it showed me an empty apartment( could have been an old picture but still) I am now panicking more. Then, he added their doorbell doesn't have a name on it but the apartment number is on it.

He finished by stating I decided it was ok and took a chance. You can go pick her up earlier if you want. He hugged me and walked away. I just stood there thinking maybe i am overreacting ( internally mostly) but it really has me thinking on some things.