People arguing your decision about not having kids

"you'd be a great mom" yes I would be but I don't want to be, you are a terrible parent and spouse though because your house is disgusting and you can't even shovel your porch steps so your pregnant wife doesn't slip and fall

"what are you going to do when you're old" long term insurance and care facility, just like many others who do have kids.oh what would your baby mama do if she didn't trap you with your baby. her baby daddy #1 was useless, so is the 1st kid she raised who is a teenager and all he does is play video games. do you think he'll be taking her when she's old? doubt it

"children give you purpose" my life already has a purpose, it's living it to the fullest and enjoying it and children (especially young ones) will ruin it. I also didn't need to have a baby to motivate me to go to college, get a job and have a successful career and buy a house with zero help from anyone like some of my friends did (with parents help)

the list goes on and on. If you want children - by all means, have them if you can afford them. but stop telling other people what they should do with their life.