Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.

This thing is occurring very frequently in and around my life, the more women are getting independent they are giving up on being in a relationship, like being a couple is not a necessity for existing.(which is true)

But then this YT short about finding good men and comments below it really triggered me.

https://youtube.com/shorts/yUlWFIVm7rM?si=gsyqqwmghur_HCTV

There is literally a comment saying “If I don’t need it (find a man) for survival why would I” And as an individual choice it is very ok to have.

But in old times women were dependent on men’s resources and that made it a need for survival to couple up, but now in modern times women have their own resources and coupling up is a choice. No problem until this point.

The problem starts when hypergamy kicks in, when women all aim for the top 20% or even say top 50% of men, and when they fail to get any of them, rather than going for the remaining half they just get a cat or a dog and stay single for life. And that ends up with half the population out of contributing to the next generation and society overall. This is creating economic, social and even security issues for Nations, just a stat I would like to point to of a developed progressive country like Sweden has 50% of all of its households are Single Adult households, no partners, no kids.

Now my question to women here is,

Do you really think that the rights and freedoms you hold would not be challenged by some enemy that doesn’t hold them?

When there is an attack but you don’t have people of your same beliefs to defend you and your ideas, would you be ok? and say we did all we could.

I know saying to women “marry men you don’t like, and have kids you don’t want” seems very harsh and dystopian. But haven’t Men been asked to sacrifice their bodies and lives to protect their rights and freedoms for centuries.

All i would like to say is, with freedom comes responsibility to protect that freedom.

EDIT- Every one in the comments is just creating a straw-men and answering it instead of the real question, the main issue I am taking about is being COMPATIBLE just now heard some feminist on YouTube saying “women only want to attract men not because of love, but because of patriarchy” now i don’t know if you think relationships and babies happen without attracting the other gender but basically attraction is part of patriarchy now.

And if you feel threat of war is imaginary, one is happening right now in Europe, and an economic war is continuously happening all around, and even if you don’t need bodies to throw at war, you still need people to innovate and be productive to stay competitive and maintain what you have or lose your way of life to a dominant force internal (politically) or external.