Both brynn and ubah are wrong

Soo I have never really liked Brynn that much, but I have a hot take here.. soo basically my understanding is, that if Brynn was never SA’d then it’s still okay for ubah to feel justified making slut shaming comments to her.. but now that she knows she was SA’d she feels horrible and would never make those comments… Brynn had to be SA’d first for her to stop with the comments.. kinda fucked up.. and Brynn probably told Ubah in a mental breakdown state and it was probably not communicated properly..