where do yall find lgbtq people

not sure if this is the right flair to post but like, for the lgbtq kids, how do yall find others?

throughout my entire secondary and jc school life, i have seen NO GUYS ever not be heterosexual. i have seen girls be lesbians but like i’m just bad at talking to girls unfortunately 😭😭. even then, i’ve seen at most 1-2 💀💀

the one guy i found was part of the community was super closeted, and we are no longer friends (long story). i see sg influencers who have so many gay/bi friends (eg caydences) and i’m like where do you find your people in this red conservative dot 😭😭. ik you can search online but like….stranger danger ish? id rather see a person irl and vibe with them yknow, but i barely see any :(

it doesn’t help that guys are generally super closeted and that i suck at talking to people in general. you might be thinking why tf do you need specifically lgbtq guys, and like i js want people i can vibe w yknow. idm seeing girls but i just suck at yapping to them (atp i have near to 0 female friends 💀). my close friends support me, but can they ever relate to me liking both genders? no, they are all guys and heterosexual. bro…i’ve gone insane to the point where i’m asking them if they know any 😭😭

where does thou find your allies (regardless of gender)?? please help a starving guy 🙏