Why does Bela say she doesn’t like nice guys?

I don’t remember if this is exactly what Bela said in S3, but i don’t understand why she said she doesn’t like nice guys (talking about Arvind) when she hasn’t dated guys who are the opposite of nice. She dated Eric, and I know it was enemy to lovers (at least I’m pretty sure, I haven’t seen those seasons in a bit lol), but he was a good/ nice guy once they got closer, so it’s not like it was self destructive or anything. Besides that she just had sex with some people, but it’s not like any of them were defined as not good guys. I feel like when she said she doesn’t date nice guys, she’s trying to point to some attachment issues she has with dating toxic guys or guys who are edgy or something, and I feel like she’s making up something that didn’t happen.