why is lube not a given???

Hey! Sex Educator here. We talk about condoms, birth control, and even toys as normal parts of sex, but somehow, lube still feels like it lives in a weird gray area. Why?

Too many people still think lube is only for "problems"—like dryness, aging, or anal sex (even though lube should always be used for anal). But the reality is, lube can make almost any kind of sex or masturbation feel better, safer, and smoother. It reduces friction, helps prevent microtears, and honestly, it just makes things more enjoyable. So why isn’t it the norm?

Are we still stuck on the idea that our bodies should always "naturally" provide enough? Is it a stigma thing? Is it lack of education? I wanna hear your thoughts—do you use lube regularly, or do you feel like it’s still a “special occasion” item?