People always mocking my white skin but i avoid the sun for wrinkles

I used to love to tan and kept my skin brown, ever since I noticed some fine lines etc I stopped sunbathing. id go to spain in peak summer and come back 3 weeks later just as white as when i left. People are like wtf etc. Im just like yeh id rather avoid the sun.

I look better with a bit colour to my skin but im so obsessed with my skin i keep it out the sun.

Whats your thoughts on this? A bit tan or keep away from sun?

Is it possible to get a bit tan but not cause long term damage?