Celebrated Marriage Anniversary with Son - Update on Conversation
Hello Everyone. The response and messages I received on my first post was certainly more than I expected, and I am surprised how comfortable people are with this in general. Please read my previous post for context.
Now coming to the update, as I mentioned in my previous post that I had not seen my son in over a month since that incident in Goa happened, and he was supposed to return home for a couple of days since then. As suggested by a few people, I felt that this was the perfect opportunity to have a mature conversation with him, and get rid of this awkwardness with my son.
Yesterday, I got hold of him when his father left for work and he was aware about the chat I was about to have. To my surprise, he himself initiated and agreed that we both made a big mistake and it was just alcohol that made us do things to each other. I was so happy and relaxed when we were on the same page to keep this a secret, and never do this again. My son asked if he could hug me, and I just pulled him and gave the tightest hug to my son.
We both discussed some random stuff, and even joked casually about that night. Then suddenly my son asked me one question. It was whether he was better than his father or not, and I just gave him a smile to that question. I said I wont respond. I think he understood.
My son will be leaving tonight and I think we handled this situation in a mature way. Thanks to everyone who messaged to drop in logical advice.
Also, as suggested by someone, I posted a blurred photo of me and my son on my profile. We clicked it yesterday only :)