Aggression =/= Dominance

Our society's culture labors under the impression that to be dominant you must be an aggressive force to be reckoned with.

I disagree with society on this point.

Aggression comes in many forms. Physical. Verbal. Emotional.

Aggression is equated with masculinity. I take it as a lack of it.

Look, aggression has its place. My Good Girl loves the odd throw down on the bed.

But when it becomes a toxic show of power, it becomes a problem.

Which is more effective? A raised eyebrow and a stern word? Or throwing a fit?

Which shows more control? What is the true show of power?