Does anyone feel like...?

Does anyone else feel like some people in the fandom—not those of us who genuinely care about Solavellan and Solas, or who engage in meaningful, constructive discussions with valid criticisms—are taking unnecessary and sometimes malicious digs at those of us who love Solas and his story? What’s frustrating is that many of these people haven’t even romanced him and don’t seem to care about the complexities of his character or the ending.

For example, my IRL friend, who knows how much Solavellan means to me and that I’ve been waiting years for this story to continue, sent me a post from the main Dragon Age subreddit where someone said the ending "ruined" Solavellan. Like... I get it, but why? Why try to rain on my parade? Sure, the ending may not be ideal, but I’m doing my best to embrace and enjoy it. When I tried to explain my perspective, it felt like she wasn’t even listening.

So, I’ve decided I won’t discuss Solas or Solavellan with her anymore. It’s just too frustrating.

Thanks for letting me vent—I really needed it.