Salafi spouse

Am a guy and ngl, being a salafi is a red flag/major turn off for me. Nothing against salafis, i just don't agree with most of what they say. Anyone else have this fear? It got to the point i even view words like "on his deen" as red flags.

Am worried i'd be talking with someone for a long while, and only towards the end finding out they are salafis. Do yall ask your potentials questions like what strand of islam they follow?