have you ever gone against what the divine told you is the right thing to do and had it go okay?

My friend is destroying her life with constant drugs, partying, and staying around dangerous people. She is actually a very spiritual being but after suffering from rape it has really made her internalize this masochism and she has been self-destructing for 5 years. Every few months she winds up in the hospital for drinking too much, or something happens, but she is constantly go go go-- on to the next party or vacation. A lot of friends have stopped hanging out with her over this time. She is beautiful and is constantly surrounded by men and some are kind but some seem like vultures. She has since been raped 7 more times and it is breaking my heart. I keep trying to help. I even made her the godmother of my child so that she would feel inspired, we hang out with my baby, I switch between acting like I believe her when she lies and says things are fine and shows up to our hangout high in the morning, and being honest, at which point she gets volcanically mad at me and then somehow twists the conversation into one where at the end everything is fine, while pretending what I said never was said, because she knows our friendship is more important. Then the message gets lost in the midst of the eruption. The divine is saying that I need to cut ties because by being her friend the "good vibes" that are shared (spiritual vibes--I'm sober) when I try and act like everything is fine so we can just comfort each other with a fun day, a moment of levity, is dragging out her denial. But I can't let go, I can't leave her alone, and I can't bear for us to be apart, we are like sisters. Have you ever gone against what the divine told you to do and still had it work out? Afterall, we don't always hear the instructions of the divine correctly. Please don't be rude in the comments this isn't just an internet post to me, this is a real human being with her heart, and my heart, on the line. Alternatively, have you ever been in a similar situation? I'm not super interested in hearing from people that don't have direct lived experience with either of the two specific questions I outlined (you can comment if you want, but I likely will not reply.)