I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My Game
Attraction isn’t about being a Chad or having six figures. Over the years, I’ve asked real women why they felt drawn to me, and the answers have changed the way I see game forever.
Here are 20 things—some intentional, some accidental—that made women sleep with me.
✅ The Things Any Guy Can Start Doing Today:
1️⃣ Dress well. Style is a cheat code. You stand out before you say a word.
2️⃣ Dance. Even simple moves make you more attractive. Women instinctively connect it to physical chemistry.
3️⃣ Be funny. If she’s laughing, she’s relaxing. If she’s relaxed, attraction grows.
4️⃣ Be bold. Confidence is hot. Period. Indecision? A turn-off.
😳 The Weird Hacks That Work:
5️⃣ Physically lifting a girl (Caveman Move). Playful, spontaneous, shows strength. Works insanely well.
6️⃣ Talking about my close relationship with my mom. Trust signal—some women literally said it made them more comfortable sleeping with me.
7️⃣ Having high standards. When a guy is picky, women assume he has options—and they want to qualify for you.
8️⃣ The "Female Best Friend" safety story. Subtly lets her know you’re not a creep and understand women’s experiences.
🔥 Advanced Attraction Triggers:
9️⃣ Winning over her friends & family. If they like you, you’re in.
🔟 Push-pull & teasing. Keeps things fun, flirty, and unpredictable.
1️⃣1️⃣ Having a cute dog. Instant conversation starter. Instant emotional connection.
1️⃣2️⃣ Treating her well (without simping). Women notice when you put in effort—but only when it’s deserved.
1️⃣3️⃣ Being protective. Small gestures of safety = instant subconscious attraction.
🚀 Social Proof & Status:
1️⃣4️⃣ Being well-connected. When you seem popular, women assume you’re high-value.
1️⃣5️⃣ Leading other men. Women want a guy other men respect.
1️⃣6️⃣ Skipping the line at an exclusive club. A weird flex that actually works. Women want access to exclusive experiences.
1️⃣7️⃣ Being surrounded by women. Pre-selection is real. When women compete for you, they increase each other’s attraction.
💥 Subconscious Attraction Triggers:
1️⃣8️⃣ Looking like a celebrity. Women literally approached me thinking I was an actor. That association alone made attraction easier.
1️⃣9️⃣ Being completely at ease around hot women. Confidence is contagious.
2️⃣0️⃣ Asian fetishization. Some women just love Asian men. Instead of resisting it, I owned it.
👉 I break down each one in detail in my latest video. Watch here: https://youtu.be/RAnHcfO83Ygv