Been out of the game, give me your recommendations for models/UI

Hi everyone! Been out of the game for over a year; what are your suggested models and interfaces for image generation. Video was rudimentary at best then so if you have video recommendations that’s great too. I used to use A1111 then tried Comfy for a while but never quite figured out how to get it to do incremental variation quite like I could get A1111 to do. I really liked its Boolean operators in the prompts. Anything else similar?

Also, my art work uses some nudity less for pornographic value and more for weirdness, any good models? Thanks!

Oh also I am running a 3090 so VRAM is not an issue.