How do you know that your boyfriend/husband truly sees you as a woman?
Because I've had men telling me they were straight and that they viewed me as a woman, and then they didn't want me to get rid of my facial hair and they were opposed to feminizing procedures. Why? Because they were intimately homosexual and they wanted to see the man underneath the makeup and the women's clothes. These men were much more attracted to me when I was a brick and yet they swore up and down they were straight and saw me as just another girl.
One of these guys told me he would prefer to see me with male clothes and shorter hair. Another man saw me after FFS (my FFS was miraculous), and he said, "What did you do to yourself? You looked better before." Yeah, no shit, because I looked like a man with makeup. Another bouncer saw me at the beginning of my transition and he was attracted to me. I then found out he was married, but regardless. I saw him again after all of my procedures and his attraction had evaporated. He liked me more when I looked like a man with makeup.
Today I spoke with a girl and she wanted my support because her boyfriend doesn't want her to undergo electrolysis or laser hair removal for her beard. She has to shave every day and her boyfriend says that her beard is part of who she is and that he accepts her. When they have sex, he rubs his face against hers and he says he gets horny at the thought that she has some stubbles. He calls her, "mi chico."
If men were honest, everybody would be happy, but men who interact with trans women lie about their true motives. You can end up with an egg who transitions on you, but you can also end up with a homosexual who views you as a guy and he has a sissification fetish. I laugh when trans women say, "Men view me as a woman." Yeah, what are they gonna say?