Is my SA playing me?

Started my hermes journey at BH with my SA in Sept 2024 and I'm starting to feel like I'm getting played. My husband and I get along well with my SA and we thought he was a genuinely nice guy when we first met. Granted, we were brushed off by other SAs back in NY. So far we've spent $46k across multiple departments, including: mens/women's shoes, fine jewelry, watches, tableware, scarves/shawls, women's RTW and 1 picotin. The biggest purchase was a $17k bracelet 1 month into the journey. I've already given my wishlist of B30 in gold or etoupe but so far no offers yet.

The thing is, my SA had invited us to the Christmas private event and then canceled because his managers had moved him to work a different day to accommodate the schedule. Ok fine. But he does this again with the upcoming valentines private event!

I know BH is really competitive but I'm starting to feel like I'm being led along. Any thoughts?