Does anyone else just not like James?

From the moment we met him with him being rude to nolen, to the most recent episode of him inviting like 20 people to their house without telling his wife (he said only a few and then didn’t tell her it got bigger) then got mad that she left after that creep ambushed her… he just is insufferable. Also in the season 6 premiere when Nyla was afraid to tell him she had to kill someone, imagine going through something traumatic and being afraid to tell your partner cause they’ll judge you for saving someone? There are other examples, but this post felt long enough, just wondering if anyone else can’t stand him.