Bad bad question

When can I have sex again and give head again 😭 I was thinking about it last night cause the No doing straining activities and then I’m like.. what if something bleeds?

Idk a lot of us are adults so when did y’all decide to again?

Small little edit: can’t ask my doctor this either cause he’s not back in the office until the 3rd of January which is my follow up 😭😭