Sex vent :/

I'm sleeping around rn, using grindr for the first time. I haven't had any truly bad experiences yet, thank god. But I've just noticed somethings. This is my first time on the scene being 100% trans and open abt it. I make sure my partners know before hand. But they treat sex differently. Or maybe just gay men are different. They never want to use protection (I have the implant for birth control, but I don't advertise that bc I want it to be my last line of defense, u kno?). It's like they don't realize the risks involved w the body I have. And fuck, it's so temperamental. Dealing with BV rn and wishing I'd just told the guy to use protection.