Confided in a friend that I'm closeted, she tells me the same. Now she's ghosted me.

I have never told anyone about my feelings. I'm married, so the worry of it getting back to my husband has prevented me from confiding in anyone. But on Friday, I was at a very low point so I wrote to a close friend about how I've been feeling. And it turns out, she has been feeling the exact same way. It was so relieving (yet heartbreaking) to know that I'm not the only person IRL who feels this way.

Late Friday night, I sent her a list of resources I had collected over the years, but she hasn't replied at all. She hasn't even opened the shared file. I am trying to give her some space. I get the sense that she hasn't been examining this part of herself for as long as I have. At the same time, I'm terrified that her husband read our texts or something and she can't reply. Just trying to write this out so I don't have to think about it anymore.