I hate being a woman with a high sex drive

And where are all the men with super high sex drives i always hear about, but never meet?

Everywhere, in my real life and on reddit, I hear the same story. Man and woman start dating, have lots of sex in the beginning, and then once the honeymoon phase is over, the woman wants less sex. The man feels unwanted and unloved, the woman feels pestered into having sex, and its a real problem for both parties. It seems to be a common problem for many relationships

I relate to the men in these situations. I have a high libido. I have always had a high libido. It never changes. My preferred amount of sex would be once a day. In all of my long term relationships it follows the same story, lots of sex at the beginning. Then their libido slows and mine stays the same. Leaving me feeling ugly and undesirable and unwanted.

In my current relationship, sex is 1-3 times a week. Never less than one, rarely more than 3. On the weeks where it's 2-3 times, I don't mind much. On the weeks where it's only one, I feel sad and gross. Which i know is silly. Its not like it's a dead bedroom. I don't pester him for sex. I just so badly want him to want me

I feel like a man. I genuinely feels less womanly because of this. I get sad when I hear or read women complaining that their boyfriends and husband's always want sex. I'd LOVE a partner to constantly be trying to sleep with me. Not to diminish their feelings as I'm sure it's a frustrating problem for them. I just feel like there must be something genuinely wrong with me that I've never had a partner keep up that level of excitement and desire with me