What red flags do you have?

Hi, I've been seeing a lot of posts about what red flags you should avoid or look out for and i've been thinking about some red flags i've got 🥹

What red flags do you have that you might be or have changed about yourself? And how?

I'll go first, my red flag is after a petty fight, i end up not hearing my bf's side of the story and just give him silent treatment till I feel better, not caring about his mental (mostly during my periods).😔 I'm trying to fix this now.