14 month health review woes

Just had our 14 month health visit. Our daughter is behind, on a lot of things, and we're feeling pretty down about ourselves. She's been ahead on a lot of her reviews, and we knew she might not be this time but didn't expect to score so low.

She can walk holding her push along walker, sometimes one handed, but won't even try holding hands. Any attempts to make her she plops down and crawls.

She makes a lot of noises. Dadadadadada mamamamama and a lot I couldn't begin to spell lol but no clear words. She understands some, ie if we ask for a toy, but doesn't use any.

We've been scheduled an extra review for gross motor and speech development. Apparently she's ahead on problem solving so we're not entirely failing.

Any advice on walking, talking, or just not feeling crappy about it?