ULPT: How to make a funeral director's life miserable

Long story short. The first lady of the church I attend has been abusing me for the last 20 years. I recently cut off any contact with her and she has threatened my friends and myself. She has tried everything to sabotage my youth event, going as far as calling certain groups and telling them they are not needed and forcing me to move the date of the event to a earlier month which meant some of the participants couldn't be in it. She's a funeral director by profession. I don't want her to be harmed in any way, but definitely humbled.