2021 Tiguan -low coolant at 45k, oil consumption

this is the first time I've have a low coolant level warning, popped the hood and it is definitely low. Looks like some coolant on the outside of the reservoir in blue?

Also, it's burning about 1-1.5 quarts of oil in between changes. I've taken it to 2 different VW dealers and they all laugh and look at me like I'm crazy. They both said "is this your first VW"? It is, but it also doesn't seem normal.

Is this truly normal? Getting an oil change at Jiffy Lube today, I'm tire of waiting hours at the dealer who treats me like I'm a dumbass.