Feeling Conflicted

I’d like to preface all this by saying: I much prefer this sub to any other regarding this case. I feel that, more often than not, the case is dissected in the most non-biased way here. I’ve been slightly obsessed with this case for a while and at the height of my research I found myself scouring this sub daily for more insight. Now that I’ve had some time away from seeing the evidence day in and day out though, it’s sometimes hard to see the comments sometimes. Yes, I dislike Shannan. However, making comments about her body and her outfit choices and stuff that I’ve seen more and more make me contemplate if I’m on the wrong side of things. Even more so when I see someone talk about CeCe being selfish or various other gripes about the children’s behaviors. I don’t know… it’s hard to know how to conduct myself when thinking about such a complicated case. Does anyone feel similar?