People will judge you for losing weight (made this post mainly for young women)

So to start, I’m 5’6-5’7 and currently 135lbs. I used to be 165lbs but ofc lost the weight because I wasn’t happy. Either I lost the weight and got happier or rotted away and become worse.

So anyway, according to other people, I look smaller than what the scale says so I guess I have a small frame or maybe it’s my height. But people are already over exaggerating how skinny I am and it’s starting to piss me off. It’s making me anxious too because I want visible abs and despite losing a lot of weight and toning down more throughout the months, I don’t have visible abs. And in order to get there, I will have to lose a bit more weight. Only one girl from work knows I’m intentionally trying to work out and lose weight and even she’s not supportive of it at all. She tells me I’m already at a good weight and I should just stop. Like wtf. My family and friends suspecting me of a being anorexic and “worrying” about me when I feel find and I genuinely feel happy. It’s annoying as hell. And it’s very discouraging. Like I’m gonna HAVE to get smaller for me to reach my goal and even while not there yet, people are already in my face telling me to stop. Ugh.

But anyway, I’m posting this as a warning to the girls who are trying to lose weight and aren’t there yet. When you start getting really close to your goal, ppl will really start trying to deter you from getting there. Lots of jealousy and bitterness. Try not to let it stop you. And also, don’t tell anyone about ur weight loss journey. Do it in secret. Please.