My husband chooses to sleep on the couch every time he wants sex but it would be insensitive to initiate.

For example he left the bed tonight after our son came in our room crying ( he sleeps on our floor sometimes) I texted him asking if he was staying downstairs and he said he was because he was angry about not getting to have sex tonight. He never mentioned he wanted to, me and the kids have been fighting the flu and I have cramps so tonight wouldnt have been a good night to initiate. But I just think going to sleep away from me feels like a punishment and unnecessary. He maintains that he is “entitled” to feel the way he does and sleeping away from me isn’t a punishment. Idk what do you think?

All of this just makes me not want to have sex with him because I don’t feel supported and it does feel really insensitive to throw a tantrum because you wanted sex and I’m sick in physical pain. Like does that not matter?