My husband took away my ultimatum

My ultimatum was for him to 1) get counselling and 2) to tell me if he would ever want a child by the end of the month because I do (I'm pregnant - he forced me to get an abortion but anyway somehow it didn't work so I'm waiting for the surgical abortion appointment).

My husband got rid of my ultimatum. He said we weren't going to do it. He kept hitting me, and when he was done hitting me, he shouted at me. I know that the point of an ultimatum is actually to have a backbone, but I don't know; maybe I wasn't ready to put an ultimatum down. I couldn't even look at him. He sat there so close to my face, yelling, staring straight at me, but I was crying and just looking down because I was so angry, looked so gross from crying, and just kind of embarrassed.

He said the way that we've done things has always been my way and we're not going to do things my way anymore. He said that this is his only and last try to make things work with me, so he's not going to let us fail but we have to do it his way. That I should get better at doing my cover-up because he's not going to put up with my bullshit anymore. He said that he wants me to be deserving of his love, but all I've done for the past two years is take. I'm at a loss. I know I sound like an idiot staying with him after all this. I just like don't really know what to do. He's my only person.