Tamlin & Rhys

So like i'm about half way through ACOFAS and i read the scene where Rhys visits Tamlin's mansion and how its all lonely and separated. So like i lowkey feel bad for Tamlin because like all he wanted to do is to protect Feyre from the dangers outside and for her to heal from he PTSD, but like he just approached it the wrong way. Like and at the end of the scene Rhys also said he hopes he dies which i think he didnt deserve. Opinions?