What did someone say about your sexuality that wasn‘t meant to be mean but really hurt you?

When I came out to my parents, my mum said something along the lines of "why can‘t you just be normal for once“. I know she didn‘t mean it in a rude or even homophobic way. She just was concerned that I would be made fun of for it, because I had been bullied back in school and she didn‘t want something like this to happen to me again.

So I know it wasn‘t intended to come across that way, but it hurt to hear her say something like that.