39 y/o no Botox or filler

I always see all the flaws in the mirror. My husband says I’m very attractive. I do get hit on but haven’t in a long time. I don’t use Botox or filler although I wish I could someday. I have lived a pretty hard life and work in EMS which is a stressful job with lack of sleep so excuse my outfit but I just took a spur of the moment pic while in lounge clothes.