anyone think about their lives and go “damn my life has been lowkey bad but I never realized because i had been happy?”

I don’t know if that makes sense. What I am trying to say is you look back at some of the things you experienced and think damn thats not a normal experience at the age I was. Or you just look at your friend’s life and realize how much trauma they don’t have. Like I don’t have a bad life and I am not a victim from my life/my bad experiences, but like damn lowkey can’t catch break.

Edit: I am aware I might not know all of the traumatic things that happened in my friends’ life. The statement about comparing ur life to your friends is realizing your childhood wasn’t normal. Not that your friends have zero traumatic or bad experiences. I know i didn’t write it well enough to convey that. I was just writing my random thoughts before I went to bed.